Everything Will Be Alright : Monslay Motivation

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Mondays are the beginning. No matter where we are in life we have a chance to begin again. When we go through those tough times we often forget how resilient we are. We often forget that there is hope as long as there is life. I write this for myself as much I write for others. The troubles pass, the days get easier. Never forget life is a gift. Never forget Life is beautiful.
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This is your reminder that everything will be alright
The signs may say different but there is no need to fight
The process, the present circumstances may not be ideal
There is never a trial without a lesson, a blessing an opportunity to heal
This is your reminder that everything will be alright
It is just a moment, they always pass
Stay grounded in the present the upheaval never lasts
There is no need to fight the process,
You are on the path to progress just you wait and see
You may not like it, you may not love it but you are exactly where you need to be
Like the dragonfly, the transformation will be inspiring
Stay open to every possibility, these growing pains mean nothing
It is all going to come together just you wait and see
You may not love it, you may not like it but you are exactly where you need to be.

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How do you get through the tough times? What is your favorite way to stay motivated? 

 

 

Life Can Be Messy :Sunday SoulFood Series

Hi, there lovelies  Happy and Blessed Sunday to all of you beautiful souls.

 

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Something about Sundays reverberates quiet reflection for me. For some it is a day of worship, for others, it just screams fun in the sun. If you are lucky you have the day off from work. I remember two years of working Sundays, for me that was just so disrespectful lol but hey one must pay the bills, feed the family and also my mild shopping addiction.  Whatever your Sunday entails; how about you ask yourself today, What can I do to make life better for me? Be totally selfish. You deserve it. Somehow our souls always have the answers, we know what needs to be done but yet we often times feel guilty about saying no or maybe just disappearing for a few hours for a recharge. Take a few minutes today to do something that brings you joy. Absolutely no excuses. Even if it is just buying yourself an ice cream cone and pretending that you are a toddler again with not a care in this world. Simply reflect on this past week and what made it great, even if it wasn’t so great to use your imagination it can lead you to some wonderful places. As usual, I leave you with one of my poems. Hopefully, it inspires you, sparks some food for thought or simply let it be a few seconds to escape from it all. 

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Life can be messy 

You have to choose your battles wisely

Are you going to walk around with a weight on your shoulders?

No wonder you are tired 

Worry does make the air so thick and heavy 

It can become stifling, crippling, gripping you so tightly that your forget t breathe 

In any situation you have three options :

Stress about it, Accept it or if you just can’t deal then carry on smartly 

No need for revenge, resentment or  regret 

We have no space to encourage and foster that bad energy 

Work on your own shit 

Don’t  watch others are doing 

Work on where you place your focus 

Sometimes you trip, you most definitely will fall 

No shame in faltering as long as you get back up again 

Be brave enough to choose yourself 

Pick your battles, Keep your glow up 

In this life you need to choose your battles wisely

If it does not bring you peace then it isn’t for you 

Put one foot in front of the other, let it go, move on from the darkness 

Sometimes you just need to say to hell with it and walk away 

Pick your battles, know your worth and carry on smartly 

Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

How do you deal with life’s messes? What brings you joy? 

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Trust The Flow

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When I was younger, I always saw endings as a tragedy
They induced panic, caused tears.

So dramatic I was
I always thought they were the end of me
As I grew older and mastered the skill of letting things go
I realised that faith would guide me
The things that fall away were only meant to be there for a moment
The disappointments, the rejections they do not define me
The pain , the upset the messy moments
They all come together to help you grow
So what if it is over? It was fun for the while

The time has come to let it go
Endings don’t have to be sad
It may have been good but better will come
Have faith, take  that leap
Welcome all possibilities with open arms
Let go and let it flow. 

Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

 

Fill Your Own Cup First

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Sometimes, we all have our weak moments. You guys can relate I am sure, You know the ones where you get down on yourself because you think maybe, just maybe you are falling behind or your life is not going according to your best-laid plans. I came up with this one after a meditation. I totally love when inspiration hits me from nowhere.  This is a reminder for myself as well as anyone who needs it. You are a precious gift to this world. Never forget to .. Cherish yourself, take care of your inner needs and take exquisite care of yourself. 

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You do not have to be defined by your experiences
You do not have to be tethered to your past
Take things one day at a time
Work on enjoying this moment
Take a deep breath
Feel your body fill with calm and contentment
Smile and believe, any moment,  this very moment can be your fresh start.

Start as many times as you need to
Be patient with yourself
Love yourself relentlessly
Your energy, your vibe your soul that is your wealth
Take time to unplug, decompress, chuck it all
to  just be and spend some time with yourself
You have the power to be whatever you want to be and not be defined externals 
Focus on you , fill your own damn cup for once
It is never selfish, only foolish not to pour all of the love you have into yourself

 

Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

How do you show yourself, Love?  What is your favourite self-care activity? 

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Sandcastles

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It was fun for a while , those playful days in the sun
She thought he would be the one to always make her smile
Sand flowed through her fingers
She wanted to build something everlasting
Put her heart and soul into it
An unexpected wave came in and washed it all away
Tried her hardest to salvage the ruins
In the end he wouldn’t stay
Grains of love remained , stuck to heart and stinging her eyes
The remnants of their time together
Memories replaying in her mind
Some people are like sandcastles  
They aren’t meant to stay
You have fun , you cherish the moments
You build a masterpiece only to have it washed away
This is the story of love and life
You play with the fire and get burned 1000 times
Feelings cut you like a knife
This is the story of love and life
Everything is temporary
Not everything is meant to stay
You build a beautiful sandcastle only to have it washed away 

Written By Tachira Wiltshire

#Press For Progress . A Tribute To Women

On March 8th we celebrate  International Women’ s Day. This years’ theme is #pressforprogress . I look forward to the day when all women can be afforded the opportunity to live up to their true potential. The day when we will not be judged or labelled for how we chose to live our lives. We all wonder women . We are all beautiful in our own right; with our unique stories and gifts. We are women, a source of unlimited resilience. Love and the utmost respect due to every female on the planet. Never let anything dull your sparkle and remember whatever you are going through. You got this boo. There is nothing that a woman can not handle. Channel your inner goddess. Equality is a right. Let no one ever make you feel unworthy because you are the giver of life. To be feminine is to be divine.

 

We are the mothers, the creators, the lovers
The backbone of society
Built to endure any strenuous task
Nothing is ever impossible
Never a tough ask
Underestimated, abused, threatened, perceived as the weaker sex
We break down all the barriers and cry out against the injustices
You can not rule our bodies, our souls, our spirits,  our minds
By your misguided standards of beauty and intelligence, we will never be defined
Empowered,
We are more intense, complex and beautiful than you will ever know
It’s 2018, fuck your outdated standards believes and  judgments
We will not be suppressed and objectified
We are women. the catalysts for change
A force to be reckoned with,  together we stand
Fueled by the fire and passion for equal rights

#PressforProgress

Rise goddesses,, unshakeable divine and full of light.

Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

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Brighter Days Ahead .. Inspiration , Motivation and Feel Good Ish

 

Beautiful and Blessed
Too dope to be stressed
These ”problems ” do not define you
Tension
Anxiety
Frustration
These are not yours to carry
Those who think you are unworthy, that is all at them
Don’t let them determine your levels of happy
It may feel off-balance, out of whack
Shit may feel heavy
It is just a temporary test
A lesson learned
What you have lost cannot compare the bounty that is forthcoming
Better days are ahead
Just trust and believe.

Written By Tachira Wiltshire…  Aspiring giver of Love and Light  

The Journey Within

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Weighed down by burdens left unseen
They were never hers to carry why couldn’t she keep the slate clean
Trying to do it all like Supergirl
She could never win
Feeling like she was failing at life ready to throw the towel in
Giving away precious energy until it eroded her soul
It was all so heavy, it got too heavy holding on to the old familiar faces the things that brought her comfort but stabbed at her psyche
Dull and aching
She longed for a taste of a new life
Feeling trapped, caged,  a prisoner in her own skin
When did she become tethered
The lioness wanted to growl but all she could muster was a whimper
It was time to start over
Allow, accept, and release
Face it head on
She had forgotten her strength
Her inner goddess unamused
Clawing to break free from the mental chains
Somehow she conjured the strength to rediscover the magic buried deep inside
She dug deep, no more suffering, no more doubts she would no longer hide
Rediscovering her purpose
Redefining her goals, basking in the dysfunctional beauty of the moment she was in
She would grow to love herself again

Written By Tachira Wiltshire

The Daily Prompt Conjure 

Vibe Bright

 

I wrote this one for anyone feeling a little dull or down because sometimes we forget our own power. The momentum that our thoughts can give us, the benefits of a few minutes of mindfulness. Sometimes you just have to take a deep breath and let it all flow.

Nothing you require is outside of yourself
The energy spent seeking approval from others
Pour it inward
Your body: Move it
Dance for no reason
Your mind: Nourish  it
Read, focus on good thoughts
Your spirit :
Elevate it. Pray. Meditate. Manifest. Love
The eternal effervescence ripples through your body
You are everything
The world teaches you to forget
Ignore it
Put together the broken pieces
Play with the demons make them work for you
Being happy and radiating love is your divine responsibility
Cultivate an unshakeable vibe
Believe everything is always right on time
Be the light. Find your fire. Vibe bright
Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

Hollow : The Daily Prompt Cavity

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Resentment, regret they build up
Layers and years of disappointments are parasites that feed on your core 
You can only hold on to it for so long before it wears you down
Steals your inner peace
The anger bubbles  and it’s hard to control the beast
Bitter,  when did life become such a bitter pill
You look in the mirror and you wonder where did the happy smiling version of you go
Everything is dark and it all feels like hell 
You just don’t want to exist anymore
Your burdens are crushing, your mind is a minefield  
There is no safe haven, no hand to hold  
Experiences, people have changed you until you become someone you used to know
You have lost your sparkle,  let them dull your shine until you have nothing left to show
Depleted and drained
It hurts too much to feel
The very thing you are are holding on to is the thing you need to let go
A cavity, an empty space, feeling hollow.

Written By Tachira Wiltshire 

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